Are You Making Your Marriage Too Hard?

Are You Making Your Marriage Too Hard?

“The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now.” – Chinese Proverb Communicating is hard. Not communicating is hard. Staying healthy is hard. Not being healthy is hard. Being financially responsible is hard. Living in debt is...
A Woman Helping a Man with His Marriage???!!!

A Woman Helping a Man with His Marriage???!!!

“We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.” Albert Einstein I don’t think most men in troubled marriages would listen to a woman. That’s literally the root of their issues. This was a comment left on one of my social media...
Your Choices—Helping or Hurting Your Marriage

Your Choices—Helping or Hurting Your Marriage

“Doing the right thing daily, compounds over time.” John C. Maxwell Every waking moment you are making choices. Big ones. Little ones. Conscious ones. Reactive ones. Habitual ones. And they all impact your marriage. Even when they seem to have little to do with...
Is Marriage or Divorce Harder?

Is Marriage or Divorce Harder?

 “You miss one hundred percent of the shots you don’t take.” Wayne Gretzky   All relationships end. This includes your marriage. The only questions are when and how. Traditional marriage vows say “until death”. But divorce is both a real, and fairly common,...
Do This to Transform Your Wife’s Anger

Do This to Transform Your Wife’s Anger

If you do not wish to be prone to anger, do not feed the habit; give it nothing which may tend to its increase. Epictetus   There’s a philosophy in several forms of martial arts that the path to success is to turn your foe’s energy against them. A similar idea...
Is Your Marriage Really Important to You?

Is Your Marriage Really Important to You?

“New love is the brightest, and long love is the greatest, but revived love is the tenderest thing known on earth.”  Thomas Hardy I’m headed home from a week away with my husband after a 2-day music festival and eight rounds of disc golf in five days. Some...