A Good Marriage Needs Strong Boundaries

A Good Marriage Needs Strong Boundaries

“When we fail to set boundaries and hold people accountable, we feel used and mistreated.” – Brene Brown In a recent post, I talked about the need for both compassion and accountability in your marriage. And the path to accountability runs directly through...
Your Marriage Needs More of This

Your Marriage Needs More of This

” Don’t be mean. There’s no need to be mean.” Buckaroo Bonzai When I was in high school, the boy’s vice principal wanted to move our graduation from the football field, where it was traditionally held, to a more contained environment. (Hall of Liberty at...
The Impact of Accountability on Your Marriage

The Impact of Accountability on Your Marriage

“The most terrifying thing is to accept oneself completely.” ― C.G. Jung A colleague of my husband’s said to him one day, “You are the master of your intent. The other person is the master of your impact.” He was talking about business, but I believe it applies...
Kindness is Key to a Good Marriage

Kindness is Key to a Good Marriage

““Kindness begins with the understanding that we all struggle.” Charles Glassman First, don’t be a dick.  That was a bumper sticker on a car my husband and I found ourselves behind several years ago. It popped into my head this past weekend as an acquaintance of...