Taking Charge of Intimacy in Your Marriage

Taking Charge of Intimacy in Your Marriage

“I much prefer people who rock the boat to people who jump out.” Orson Welles   I’ve started something new this year—First Friday Ask Me Anything. It’s the chance for you to get free coaching about anything marriage related. This month Paul took me up on...
The Best Gift to Give Your Wife This Year

The Best Gift to Give Your Wife This Year

“Anything in life that we don’t accept will simply make trouble for us until we make peace with it. “Shakti Gawain I don’t want to sound hokey, but the best gift you can give to your wife doesn’t come in a box. It’s also not just a once-a-year at the...
Dealing with Rejection from Your Wife

Dealing with Rejection from Your Wife

“We fear rejection, want attention, crave affection, and dream of perfection.” Mac Miller Two separate emails collided for me this week around the topic of physical intimacy. I’m taking it as the universe wanting me to address this important marital topic. Because it...
Making the Time to Do Marriage Right

Making the Time to Do Marriage Right

“Second marriage is the triumph of hope over experience.” Oscar Wilde The John Wooden quote, “If you don’t have time to do it right, when will you have the time to do it over?” popped into my head earlier this week when I was talking to Elliot who just married...
Rating Marriage by Bedroom Activity

Rating Marriage by Bedroom Activity

“There’s nothing better than good sex. But bad sex? A peanut butter and jelly sandwich is better than bad sex.” – Billy Joel Intimacy (not just sex) is often a desired part of marriage. But judging your relationship by what is, or is not, happening...