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Is Balance Even Possible in Your Marriage?
"True happiness comes from integration... of work, family, self, community." Padmasree Warrior I was talking to a friend yesterday (see the video above) about what he sees as the biggest challenge in his marriage. It wasn’t money. It wasn’t the amount or quality of...
Is Your Wife Too Stressed for Physical Intimacy?
“You musn’t force sex to do the work of love or love to do the work of sex.” Mary Mccarthy Your wife, if she is like most women, is very sensitive to context when it comes to being receptive to your invitations to get physical with you. In the book Come as You Are,...
The #1 Reason Your Wife Says No to Intimacy
“Sexual intimacy is a continuing process of discovery.” Sheri Stritof You’ve planned the perfect evening. Kids are at your parents. Dinner ordered from her favorite restaurant. You’ve even agreed to watch her favorite rom-com, again. The stars are in alignment and...
The #1 Ingredient You Need for a Successful Marriage
“The great marriages are partnerships. It can’t be a great marriage without being a partnership.” Helen Mirren You may think that love is the most important ingredient needed for a good marriage but, the Beatle’s notwithstanding, it’s not. Love is necessary but not...
You and Your Wife Will Disagree—Now What?
“Whenever you're in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude.” – William James You and your wife are having a disagreement. Whether it turns into conflict is up...
Are You Passing the Marriage Test?
“Marriage is our last best chance to grow up." John Barth I was talking to an old friend the other day. He reached out to get my advice about whether he should get married again. He knows what I do for a living and wanted an “expert” opinion. This would be marriage...
Are You Settling in Your Marriage?
“The biggest human temptation is to settle for too little.” Thomas Merton I overheard this conversation while waiting for my coffee order the other day. I wish I could say I was surprised. Especially as she went on to share with her friend that they no longer talked,...
Why is Anyone Married Today?
“Your naked body should only belong to (the one who falls) in love with your naked soul." Charlie Chaplin When my daughter got married three years ago my nieces were very interested in the wedding plans. What confused them was her decision to get married in the...
Time Alone Won’t Fix Your Marriage
“Love doesn’t just sit there, like a stone, it has to be made, like bread; remade all the time, made new.” Ursula K. Le Guin I’ve been thinking a lot about time this week. That’s because my oldest child, my son, turns 30 today. There’s a big part of me that can’t...
How Your Marriage is Like a Puzzle
"Love is like a puzzle. It can be unboxed by most but understood and built by little." Juan Menjiver I love puzzles. Of all kinds. Jigsaws, Crosswords, Jumbles. You name it. Mysteries in books and T.V. are my favorite genre. I love trying to figure things out. Putting...
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