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March Madness and Your Marriage
“ I try to do the right thing at the right time. They may just be little things, but usually they make the difference between winning and losing." Kareem Abdul-Jabbar You might think that the NCAA Basketball Tournaments would have nothing to do with marriage, except...
What is Your Marriage ROI?
“When you say ROI, do you mean return on investment or risk of inaction? Paul Gillin Many people think about ROI (Return on Investment) only as it applies to their financial investments. But isn’t your marriage one of the biggest investments you will ever make? I was...
Does Kindness Live in Your Marriage?
“Kindness and politeness are not overrated at all. They're underused.” – Tommy Lee Jones I was reading an article the other day about a Science of Happiness course taught at the University of Bristol. The professors identified 80 or so psychological interventions...
Is Your Inner Rebel Destroying Your Marriage?
Never rebel for the sake of rebelling, but always rebel for the sake of truth. Criss Jami Your wife is asking for you to do more around the house. Doesn’t she understand how tired you are from your long day at work? Doesn’t she appreciate all you already...
Is Marriage or Divorce Harder?
“You miss one hundred percent of the shots you don't take.” Wayne Gretzky All relationships end. This includes your marriage. The only questions are when and how. Traditional marriage vows say “until death”. But divorce is both a real, and fairly common,...
Do This to Transform Your Wife’s Anger
If you do not wish to be prone to anger, do not feed the habit; give it nothing which may tend to its increase. Epictetus There’s a philosophy in several forms of martial arts that the path to success is to turn your foe’s energy against them. A similar idea...
Is Your Wife Always Mad at You?
Being heard is so close to being loved that for the average person, they are almost indistinguishable. David Augsberger Does it seem like no matter what you do, your wife always seems to be mad at you? If so, you’re probably hurt, confused, or...
Stop Accepting the Unacceptable from Your Wife
"Change the changeable, accept the unchangeable, and remove yourself from the unacceptable." Dennis Waitley Are there things happening in your marriage that aren’t okay with you? If you said “yes”, I have a question. Why are you allowing it? I’ve...
The Love Languages: Helpful or Hype?
"Love is but the discovery of ourselves in others, and the delight in the recognition." Alexander Smith Have you heard about the 5 Love Languages? They were introduced to the world in 1992 by Baptist pastor Gary Chapman. He developed his theory as he worked to...
Love (and Life) Lessons from Jonesie the Cat
“To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die.” –Thomas Campbell Last week at this time I was processing the imminent death of my beloved, 100 degree, almost as soft as a chinchilla, 14 ½ year old bundle of fur. Yes, I am a cat person. Yes, she was named after the...