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No, You Never “Have” to Act Poorly
Have you ever found yourself feeling unfairly attacked and feel like you “have” to defend yourself? That you need to go toe to toe with someone and then try to justify your behavior when it doesn’t go the way you planned? Maybe it’s happened in your marriage, in your...
Do You Have What It Takes to Be a Leader in Your Marriage?
In the first two days of the new year, I received seven inquiries about marriage help. That included on New Year’s Day. And it was a weekend. So starts the annual rush for marriage professionals and divorce attorneys. Maybe you’re considering reaching out to one or...
What a 360 Review of Your Job as a Husband Could Reveal
Another year is drawing to a close. It’s the time when a lot of companies are evaluating the performance of both their overall business and that of individual staff members. The answers will determine what bonuses, raises, promotions, layoffs, and even terminations...
Do the Holidays Bring Out the Best or Worst in Your Spouse?
Are you one of the 46 million people who Googled “my wife ruins every holiday”? Is your wife one of the 16 million who Googled “my husband ruins every holiday”? Just take a moment and let those numbers sink in. As you find yourself in the middle of “the most...
Someone Needs to Step Up in Your Marriage—Is it You?
Every marriage needs a hero. The person willing to step up and do the right thing even if it’s difficult. Especially if it’s difficult. This is critically important if you and your wife are caught in unproductive or hurtful patterns. And way too many couples are. The...
Is Your Wife Suffering From Marital Doubt?
People usually keep doubts about their marriages to themselves—at least for a while and often from their partners. I’m not talking about ordinary concerns about your relationship or dealing with a difficult, but manageable issue, but about a real concern that the...
Will This Be Your Last Holiday Season as a Husband?
If that question got your attention—GOOD! Because if you’re not sure the answer is a resounding NO, you don’t have a lot of time to avert disaster. A focus on making the holidays great for your family may be hiding an intention to blow it all up come the new year....
Do You Take Your Marriage (and Your Spouse) for Granted?
As a small business owner, I have to think about the state of my business a lot. If I don’t pay attention, it will fail. You might think about your job pretty frequently too. But how much thought do you give to your marriage? Probably a whole lot less than it needs....
4 Simple Steps to Take When You Think Your Wife is Over-reacting
Here’s the scenario—your wife is on the verge of, or actually in, tears. You’re finding it difficult to not only understand what she’s saying but to even understand why she is upset. In your mind, she is blowing the situation out of proportion, but you know better...
3 Killer Mistakes You are Making as a Lover
How often do you think about your skill as a lover? Thinking about it too much can paralyze you. And thinking about it too little can result in frustration for your partner. Finding that sweet spot can mean the difference between just an “okay” sex life and a great...
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