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Bad Marriage Advice #22: Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater

Bad Marriage Advice #22: Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater

Betrayal, no matter what kind, is devastating. Many believe infidelity may be the worst form of betrayal. If it has ever happened to you, you know what I mean. But does it have to mean the end of your marriage?  Most people think it does. Hence the common advice—once...

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Bad Marriage Advice #20: Marriage Counseling Doesn’t Work

Bad Marriage Advice #20: Marriage Counseling Doesn’t Work

I used to get asked all the time what my success rate doing couples counseling was. My answer—100% with couples who were willing and able to do the work and 0% with couples who weren’t. Because I can only provide information. I can’t make someone use it. And neither...

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Bad Marriage Advice #19: Relationships are Natural

Bad Marriage Advice #19: Relationships are Natural

She said, “I’ve figured out that relationships aren’t natural.” I smiled and replied, “Where did you get the idea they were?” She is not alone in that thinking.  To an extent, relationships are natural. But so is breathing and seeing. But things can get in the way of...

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Bad Marriage Advice #18: Only Couples in Trouble Need Help

Bad Marriage Advice #18: Only Couples in Trouble Need Help

Do you think Steph Curry and LeBron James continue to work to improve their games even though they are arguably the best at what they do? No, that isn’t a trick question. Yes, it relates to your marriage. My newest Lesli-ism is, “no one has to take a Relationship 101...

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