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Black and White Thinking is Hurting Your Marriage
"In this world, nothing is certain except death and taxes." Benjamin Franklin With apologies to Benjamin Franklin, there are only two things that are certain—you’re pregnant or you’re not; you’re dead or you’re not. (Unless you’re a fan of The Princess Bride and then...
The Marriage Warning Sign You Shouldn’t Ignore
There I was, getting ready to log-in to my daily Zoom meeting, when my computer slid off my desk. Everything that I had on my schedule for that day was immediately off my agenda. In that moment, all the things I meant to do but didn’t hit me. I thought I had time. I...
Is Your Marriage Broken?
I’ve been thinking a lot about broken things lately. And about all the advice I’ve been getting since my computer accidentally landed on my office floor last week. (It’s day 8 and I’m still using the one with the broken screen at times because the new one still isn’t...
Is Your Marriage About to Crash and Burn?
You know things haven’t been firing on all cylinders. You know you should give it some attention but it’s working well enough. Yes, you’ve started thinking about getting a new one but this one keeps limping along and it would be a hassle to start over with something...
Two Words for 2022!
Actually there are many two word combinations I can think of as 2022 comes to an end. Good riddance. So long. See ya. F*** Off. Thank you. Maybe that last option is a bit of a surprise. But it goes along with my two words: gratitude and helpless. And there is a huge...
The Real Intimacy Gift Your Wife Wants From You
Have you been wracking your brain trying to think of the perfect gift that will bring “that look” back into your wife’s eyes? It won’t be jewelry or plane tickets to an exotic location. It won’t be any physical object. Because the intimacy gift she really wants is...
Can You Handle a Real Conversation About Intimacy with Your Wife?
My question to you is “Can you handle your wife’s truth about your intimate life?” I was thinking about this the other day while watching television. One of the characters said to another that they couldn’t handle the truth. This immediately threw me back to the scene...
Kissing: What It Reveals About Intimacy with Your Wife
Kissing, or more to the point, not kissing is often an indicator of the level of intimacy with your wife. And I’m not talking about pecks on the cheek or mouth but full-on, deep, intimate kissing. The kind you probably did when you first got together. Even if you’re...
The Hidden Path to More Intimacy with Your Wife
Did you know that your wife has a body part that is specifically designed for physical pleasure? That’s its only purpose. Its only reason for existing. And only women have it. It means that she is uniquely capable of enjoying physical intimacy with you. What is this...
The Most Wonderful Time of the Year (Really!)
Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday. Not only is it in the middle of my favorite season, but there are no gifts to buy, no costumes to wear, and no real decorations to put up. Just a celebration of all the things that make life enjoyable—good company, good food, and,...