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Taking Charge of Intimacy in Your Marriage
"I much prefer people who rock the boat to people who jump out." Orson Welles I’ve started something new this year—First Friday Ask Me Anything. It’s the chance for you to get free coaching about anything marriage related. This month Paul took me up on the...
Getting Support for Your Marriage Is Smart, Not Punishment
The best time to plant a tree was 30 years ago, and the second best time to plant a tree is now. George W. White My husband and I came home last Saturday to find several cars and a bunch of young people in our street. My husband asked what was going on and one of...
Your Well-Intentioned Decisions are Leading to Divorce
"The road to hell is paved with good intentions." Bernard of Clairvaux I was talking to Paul, one of the members in my Good Guys, Great Husbands Facebook group earlier this week. He’s a new dad and wants to be supportive of his wife during this exhausting and...
Are You Just Tolerating Your Marriage?
"We need a place in which we may flourish and be ourselves." Timothy Radcliffe I want to be in a marriage where my feelings are minimized, my desires are ignored, and I walk on eggshells all the time. Said. No. One. Ever. What most people want, maybe even you, is a...
Feeling Inadequate as a Husband?
"Imperfections are not inadequacies; they are reminders that we're all in this together." Brene Brown I was admitting new members into my Good Guys, Great Husbands Facebook Group the other day. One of them listed his biggest challenge as constantly being judged by...
Does Your Marriage Need Help?
“Asking for help isn't a sign of weakness, it's a sign of strength. It shows you have the courage to admit when you don't know something, and to learn something new." - Barack Obama In a word—YES! Not because things are bad, though they might be. But because all...
The Beginning of the End of Your Marriage?
“Be the change you want to see happen." Arleen Lorrance January is Divorce Month. It doesn’t mean all or even most divorces happen in January. It means that January is often when the divorce process kicks off. It’s the time of year when family attorneys' phones ring...
New Year, New Marriage?
“They always say time changes things, but you actually have to change them yourself." Andy Warhol The relationship result that’s eluding you can be found in the work you’re not willing to do. Please, read that again. I read this on a blog a few weeks ago and it really...
Your Top 10 Marriage Moments
“ Keep your face to the sunshine and you cannot see a shadow." Helen Keller It’s the time of year when many people are reviewing the best and worst moments. You may have seen the lists for Top 10 Movies, Books, or Places to Visit. Maybe you’ve even created your own...
The Best Gift to Give Your Wife This Year
“Anything in life that we don't accept will simply make trouble for us until we make peace with it. "Shakti Gawain I don’t want to sound hokey, but the best gift you can give to your wife doesn’t come in a box. It’s also not just a once-a-year at the holidays thing....