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Honesty in Your Marriage is the Best Policy

Honesty in Your Marriage is the Best Policy

"People like to say that the conflict is between good and evil. The real conflict is between truth and lies." Miguel Angel Ruiz  Is honesty in a relationship a virtue in and of itself or must it be “rewarded”? This is the question I asked myself after one of my...

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Being an Honorable Man in Your Marriage

Being an Honorable Man in Your Marriage

"Whoever is careless with the truth in small matters cannot be trusted in important affairs." Albert Einstein  Being honorable has to do with people and actions that are honest, fair, and worthy of respect. When you think about how you show up in your marriage, would...

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Damned If You Do…

Damned If You Do…

"Being heard is so close to being loved that for the average person, they are almost indistinguishable."  David Augsberger  Does it seem like no matter what you do, your wife always seems to be mad at you? If so, you’re probably hurt, confused, or frustrated. Or all...

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Your Marriage Might NOT Have a Tomorrow

Your Marriage Might NOT Have a Tomorrow

"I’ll think about it tomorrow. After all, tomorrow is another day." Scarlett O’Hara  It’s been a rough week, technology wise. And if you know me, you know that’s not a good thing. I’m a digital immigrant who does okay, as long as all my devices are working properly....

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Taking Charge of Intimacy in Your Marriage

Taking Charge of Intimacy in Your Marriage

"I much prefer people who rock the boat to people who jump out." Orson Welles  I’ve started something new this year—First Friday Ask Me Anything. It’s the chance for you to get free coaching about anything marriage related. This month Paul took me up on the...

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Getting Support for Your Marriage Is Smart, Not Punishment

Getting Support for Your Marriage Is Smart, Not Punishment

The best time to plant a tree was 30 years ago, and the second best time to plant a tree is now. George W. White   My husband and I came home last Saturday to find several cars and a bunch of young people in our street. My husband asked what was going on and one of...

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Your Well-Intentioned Decisions are Leading to Divorce

Your Well-Intentioned Decisions are Leading to Divorce

"The road to hell is paved with good intentions." Bernard of Clairvaux  I was talking to Paul, one of the members in my Good Guys, Great Husbands Facebook group earlier this week. He’s a new dad and wants to be supportive of his wife during this exhausting and...

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Are You Just Tolerating Your Marriage?

Are You Just Tolerating Your Marriage?

"We need a place in which we may flourish and be ourselves." Timothy Radcliffe  I want to be in a marriage where my feelings are minimized, my desires are ignored, and I walk on eggshells all the time. Said. No. One. Ever. What most people want, maybe even you, is a...

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Feeling Inadequate as a Husband?

Feeling Inadequate as a Husband?

 "Imperfections are not inadequacies; they are reminders that we're all in this together." Brene Brown  I was admitting new members into my Good Guys, Great Husbands Facebook Group the other day. One of them listed his biggest challenge as constantly being judged by...

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Does Your Marriage Need Help?

Does Your Marriage Need Help?

“Asking for help isn't a sign of weakness, it's a sign of strength. It shows you have the courage to admit when you don't know something, and to learn something new." - Barack Obama  In a word—YES! Not because things are bad, though they might be. But because all...

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