3 Killer Mistakes You are Making as a Lover

3 Killer Mistakes You are Making as a Lover

How often do you think about your skill as a lover? Thinking about it too much can paralyze you. And thinking about it too little can result in frustration for your partner. Finding that sweet spot can mean the difference between just an “okay” sex life and a great...
How You’re Giving Up Control in Your Marriage

How You’re Giving Up Control in Your Marriage

Do you believe your wife tries to control you? Do you try to control her? This whole idea of one partner “controlling” the other is, quite frankly, a cop out. It is an abdication of your personal responsibility for what your relationship looks like. But the idea of...
If Your Marriage is Only “Okay”, It’s at Risk

If Your Marriage is Only “Okay”, It’s at Risk

It’s happened again. A frantic phone call from a man whose wife just asked for a divorce. He was devastated and, worse, blindsided. He thought everything was fine. Not stupendous but okay. Certainly not bad enough to end the marriage.  Now, he’s desperate. He loves...
How to Have Good Sex in a Long-Term Relationship

How to Have Good Sex in a Long-Term Relationship

No, you did not misread that. It is possible to keep your sex life going in top form through the years, no matter how old you are or how long you’ve been together. Unfortunately, sex, or lack thereof, is often a source of frustration and arguments in many marriages....