Your Marriage Needs More of This

Your Marriage Needs More of This

” Don’t be mean. There’s no need to be mean.” Buckaroo Bonzai When I was in high school, the boy’s vice principal wanted to move our graduation from the football field, where it was traditionally held, to a more contained environment. (Hall of Liberty at...
The Impact on Your Marriage of Needing to be “Right”

The Impact on Your Marriage of Needing to be “Right”

“Our addiction to always being right is a great block to the truth.” Stephen Levine My father was an engineer to his core. Unfortunately, it contributed to one of his least admirable behaviors—correcting my mother.  She would be telling a story and say...
Flexibility is Key to a Happy Marriage

Flexibility is Key to a Happy Marriage

“Change is the only constant in life.” Heraclitus   There’s a saying that men marry hoping their wives won’t change and women marry hoping their husbands will. There is a bit of truth in both positions. Who each of you are at your core will not change. The rest...
The Impact of Accountability on Your Marriage

The Impact of Accountability on Your Marriage

“The most terrifying thing is to accept oneself completely.” ― C.G. Jung A colleague of my husband’s said to him one day, “You are the master of your intent. The other person is the master of your impact.” He was talking about business, but I believe it applies...